How “Catch and Release” Helps Conflict Management

How “Catch and Release” Helps Conflict Management

“Catch and Release”–a concept that can help us navigate conflict better. I heard someone at a community meeting use the term “catch and release” to describe how they turn their own thoughts from negative to positive. It struck me immediately that...
How Avoidance Can Help You with Workplace Conflict

How Avoidance Can Help You with Workplace Conflict

  It sounds counter intuitive, but Inaction or avoidance can be a viable way of dealing with workplace conflict. When I teach introductory classes about managing conflict, I usually have students take a conflict styles inventory. Learning about your own style and...
Four Elements of Forgiveness—50 Years Later.

Four Elements of Forgiveness—50 Years Later.

I read recently about a beautiful example of forgiveness for a wrong that happened 50 years before. Elwin Wilson had been a white supremacist, and one of the mob who, in 1961, severely beat up Freedom Riders demonstrating for integration and African Americans’...
Can Forgetting Help Us Forgive?

Can Forgetting Help Us Forgive?

By remembering our younger selves, can we heal bitterness and estrangement in our present relationships? This is the theme of the novel, What Alice Forgot, by Liane Moriarty. As the novel begins, Alice falls and hits her head during a spinning class, and wakes up...