Choosing Optimism

Choosing Optimism

Choosing Optimism Choosing optimism helps you navigate conflict. How you view conflict and how skillfully you navigate it is deeply impacted by your attitude. When you are mired in fear or resentment, or telling yourself a negative story of what the future holds, it...
Sorting Team Conflict

Sorting Team Conflict

Sorting Team Conflict What sort of conflict is your  workplace team experiencing? Getting clarity about what is causing the problems can help you find solutions. In my teaching and coaching, I share Craig Runde and Tim Flanagan’s useful distinction between good...
Fifteen Years of Conflict Remedy

Fifteen Years of Conflict Remedy

Fifteen Years of Conflict Remedy This month, November 2024, I have been writing and publishing my blog for fifteen years. I’m amazed I have kept it up all these years, but time truly does go quickly when you’re having fun! I’ve been reflecting on this achievement, and...
How to Make Every Mistake in a Conflict

How to Make Every Mistake in a Conflict

How to Make Every Mistake in a Conflict I read a letter in Dear Abby the other day which demonstrated a lot of the basic mistakes people make in a conflict. This one was about family dynamics, but the analysis and solution apply to many workplace situations as well....
Use Your Super Power to Transform Conflict

Use Your Super Power to Transform Conflict

Use your super power to transform conflict. When you envision a super power, what comes to mind first? My wonderful niece, who loves science fiction and fantasy just as much as I do, pointed out to me that the superpowers featured in movies and comics are frequently...