Trigger Stacking and Conflict

Trigger Stacking and Conflict

Trigger stacking and conflict. A series of emotional triggers can set off even the most centered person! The role of emotional triggers in conflict. I have frequently taught about and coached people through emotional triggers, also called hot buttons.  When something...
Feedback, Hot Buttons, and White Fragility

Feedback, Hot Buttons, and White Fragility

Being open to difficult feedback, even about racism, can help you grow. Receiving feedback without feeling defensive or triggered is a challenge. I work with my students and clients to increase their resiliency and ability to get the best from feedback of supervisors...
Holiday Hot Buttons and How to Cool Them Down

Holiday Hot Buttons and How to Cool Them Down

We all have idealized images of the holiday season–perfect gifts and the warm glow of togetherness. But the real stress of expectations and difficult patterns of interactions with family members (perhaps better loved at a distance) can set off our emotional hot...