When Your Boss Is A Bully

When Your Boss Is A Bully

I have unfortunately worked for more than one boss who was a bully. And since I started teaching, coaching, and consulting with individuals and organizations around bullying and mobbing behaviors, I’ve heard stories about many more. I recently did some consulting at a...
Inner Tools to Survive Workplace Bullying (part 2)

Inner Tools to Survive Workplace Bullying (part 2)

    Letting go of resentments is a fourth powerful tool to help you survive and heal from workplace bullying. In my last blog post I wrote about three valuable inner tools I used myself and have since shared with clients and trainees. These are: 1) affirming...
Inner Tools to Survive Workplace Bullying (part 1)

Inner Tools to Survive Workplace Bullying (part 1)

Those of us who have survived workplace bullying or mobbing (bullying by a group) know how awful and traumatizing it is. In my experience as a survivor and a coach & trainer, accessing inner tools can be immensely helpful to avoid the worst of the emotional impact...
Your rules/their rules in conflict management

Your rules/their rules in conflict management

 The zen of the gym part 3       Do you judge people for breaking a rule you always follow? I realized recently that I was obliviously violating one of the rules posted at my gym, while burningly conscious of the rules other people were ignoring. I know...