by Lorraine Segal | Jul 17, 2017
So many conflicts at work and everywhere expand and linger because people believe there is only one right answer or one way to see or do things. If instead of seeing the world in narrow extremes of right/wrong either/or etc., you can shift to yes/and,...
by Lorraine Segal | Jun 18, 2017
Divine Listening. I heard the term divine listening recently and thought it applied really well to managing conflict. Beyond compassionate listening or listening to understand, divine listening incorporates even more. To me it means listening as if you are...
by Lorraine Segal | May 14, 2017
On Being Bullied—reflections, lessons, and gratitude 8 years later The end of being bullied On June 2nd, 2009, I drove away for the last time from the toxic workplace where I had been repeatedly bullied and mobbed. I’ve been reflecting recently about this life...
by Lorraine Segal | Apr 13, 2017
A wonderful benefit of learning conflict resolution skills is using them to positively reframe my own challenging communications. In difficult interactions, we often have a choice between accusing and getting information, between being self righteous or solving...
by Lorraine Segal | Mar 18, 2017
In the classic folk tale, the Sun and the Wind each believe they are more powerful. They attempt to prove it by betting that they will be able to make a man take off his coat. First, the Wind blows harder and harder. But the more strongly the wind blows, the more...
