Feelings and Conflict at Work

Feelings and Conflict at Work

We have to make room for feelings and conflict at work. People frequently have a lot of confusion about the role of feelings and emotions at work. I was interviewed recently on this topic by Gabriel Cox, one of my wonderful students in the conflict management...
Love and Tough Love in Conflict Coaching

Love and Tough Love in Conflict Coaching

  Love and tough love are both important in conflict coaching. Conflict coaching is one of my favorite ways to help clients resolve or manage interpersonal conflicts at work, or anywhere. While mediation can be immensely valuable, I find that mediation is more...
The Craziness of Workplace Mobbing 

The Craziness of Workplace Mobbing 

Workplace mobbing can make you feel crazy. Mobbing, also called bullying by a group, is all too prevalent in dysfunctional workplaces. It has many negative effects including impeding the productivity and harmony of an organization, causing health problems and PTSD in...
Follow the Platinum Rule in Diverse Workplaces

Follow the Platinum Rule in Diverse Workplaces

The Platinum Rule is better than the Golden Rule at work, because not everyone is the same. Golden rule vs. Platinum rule We’ve all heard the Golden Rule, Treat others the way you want to be treated. Sounds good, right? Be kind, treat people well. What could go wrong...
How “Catch and Release” Helps Conflict Management

How “Catch and Release” Helps Conflict Management

“Catch and Release”–a concept that can help us navigate conflict better. I heard someone at a community meeting use the term “catch and release” to describe how they turn their own thoughts from negative to positive. It struck me immediately that...