Changing Hearts, Minds, and Behavior around Conflict

Changing Hearts, Minds, and Behavior around Conflict

Before I start teaching a course or workshop about conflict management, I always tell my students that I have a modest goal for the class: to change their hearts, minds, and behaviors. We all laugh, because of course that isn’t really a modest goal; in fact, it’s a...
Conflict Management Lessons from Improv Theater

Conflict Management Lessons from Improv Theater

Conflict management lessons from improv theater Can the rules of improv theater help us with conflict? Marianne Fleischer is a speechwriter-presentations skills executive coach and trainer who has a passion for improv theater. I met her in a leadership group and she...
Bring Five Percent more Compassion to Conflicts

Bring Five Percent more Compassion to Conflicts

  Bringing five percent more compassion can really make a difference in conflicts. What would happen if you could bring just a little bit more compassion and love to conflicts and disagreements? I think you’d be amazed at the positive effect. I’ve often talked...
To Solve a Problem at Work–Ask; Don’t Assume

To Solve a Problem at Work–Ask; Don’t Assume

To solve a problem at work, ask; don’t assume. When you ask and don’t assume you already know the answers, you’re likely to find better solutions to workplace problems. A friend of mine who is an HR professional was facing an uncomfortable situation at work. She...
Acknowledging Mistakes at Work

Acknowledging Mistakes at Work

Acknowledging Mistakes at Work One of the big issues that creates conflict at work and interfers with harmonious relationships, is many people’s inability to acknowledge their own mistakes. I confess that perfectionism is one of my own shortcomings. I still sometimes...