Four Elements of Forgiveness—50 Years Later.

Four Elements of Forgiveness—50 Years Later.

I read recently about a beautiful example of forgiveness for a wrong that happened 50 years before. Elwin Wilson had been a white supremacist, and one of the mob who, in 1961, severely beat up Freedom Riders demonstrating for integration and African Americans’...
Five Tips to Let Go and Forgive after a Break-Up

Five Tips to Let Go and Forgive after a Break-Up

  Learning how to let go and forgive helped me a lot after two break-ups. Neither of these was with a spouse or romantic partner, but they were deep and difficult and painful nonetheless.One was with a dear friend of several years, and the other was with an...

What are the biggest mistakes divorced parents make?

While parents are divorcing and after they are divorced, they are often overwhelmed by all the changes in their lives. They may be filled with guilt, blame, rage, or grief. Though they, of course, love their children, it may be a huge challenge to manage emotions and...

Balance Listening and Limits with Storming Teens

How can parents stay loving and detached but still listen when challenged by preteens and new teens? My favorite pediatrician, T Berry Brazelton, advises parents of teens who are being challenged or insulted to say calmly, “I’m interested in what you have to say, but...