Three Common Ways Conflict Shows Up in Organizations

Three Common Ways Conflict Shows Up in Organizations

Conflict in businesses and organizations can show up in at least three different ways. Recently, I was called in to consult with the board of a volunteer service organization experiencing some serious problems with internal conflict. As in many organizations, they...
How Avoidance Can Help You with Workplace Conflict

How Avoidance Can Help You with Workplace Conflict

  It sounds counter intuitive, but Inaction or avoidance can be a viable way of dealing with workplace conflict. When I teach introductory classes about managing conflict, I usually have students take a conflict styles inventory. Learning about your own style and...
The Sun, the Wind, and Positive Change in the Workplace

The Sun, the Wind, and Positive Change in the Workplace

In the classic folk tale, the Sun and the Wind each believe they are more powerful. They attempt to prove it by betting that they will be able to make a man take off his coat. First, the Wind blows harder and harder. But the more strongly the wind blows, the more...
Manage, Don’t Enable, Feuds at Work 

Manage, Don’t Enable, Feuds at Work 

When disagreements at work are unresolved, one of the unfortunate outcomes can be long lasting workplace feuds. These can simmer and fester for years, infecting a whole workplace with negativity and keeping everyone stuck. I got to see a perfect example of a...
Bad Art and the Benefits of Owning Our Mistakes at Work

Bad Art and the Benefits of Owning Our Mistakes at Work

What can bad art teach us about successful relationships in the workplace? One of the big issues that creates conflict at work and interfers with harmonious relationships, is many people’s inability to acknowledge their own mistakes. I confess that perfectionism is...